Strength for the Right Words

Do you ever have the right words to say when someone/something happens? Well I hope this blog will help someone understand what to say and do when issues arise in life.

1. What to say when friends are making fun of you?
I was made fun of a lot in school. I did not wear the name brand clothes, I smelled like smoke all the time, I had learning disabilities, since I had problems reading. Kids would really make fun of me. Well this is what I learned is the best to do,  Just say the words, Jesus loves you, I will pray for you,  I forgive you and walk away.  I admit I was one who wanted to smart off back, I learned that never works. Over time I learned, spreading the love Jesus does.  Pray That God will give you strength for wisdom in handling the bullies in life. Pray for those people who are hurting you, God is the only one who can change them, We can't, I can't.  Lots of time those bullies need to be shown Jesus Love the most. Very simple, easy words, you plant that gospel seed. God can give you strength to love your worst enemies. Jesus died for All people, even the ones who hated him.

2. Parents wisdom before their race is done. What does a Parent say to their children?
I lost my ma who raised me in 2011 to cancer. Anyone who knows anyone who has had cancer, knows that is a terrible disease. It really makes people sick and you watch your loved one suffer and then you wonder why. Romans 6:23 says:  ²³ For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. So we all are going to pass somehow and sometime. It is how we handle the situation when it comes. My Ma gave Praise to God during her time of suffering. We talked about, how God suffer much worse than her. He was beaten and nailed to a cross until death and I am suffering just from a sickness inside of me, and there is meds to help with my pain. Well those words were the words I needed to hear, because I realized she was right, Jesus did suffer more. No sickness can compare to the beating and hurt Jesus took for me, so I can live with him eternally.

3. Words to Say after the loss of parents
I loss my birth mother suddenly of a heart attack. It was a major shock to all of us. The best words I got that day was rely on God's words and promises. Yes, we can say sorry for your loss, but to be honest people get more mad over those words, why I don't understand, maybe cause that is all we now to say. I will admit I am guilty of it and always will be. But to give me a hug and say rely on the words that God has laid out for me, Plant that seed, even if those people are angry at God or others, you will remind them, that God has the words I need to hear or read. God words are meant to be shared in all of life circumstances.

4.Strength for the right time
I felt guilty that I never got the words out I wanted my birth mother to hear. I needed Kathy to know I Loved her, even though we were not close I needed her to hear that, and it was to late. So we all have a great gift in life, it called time. Please take time and tell your love ones what you want them to hear. Because in a second they can be gone. God can provide you with the strength to say the words you need to hear. We just need to take the step to tell. Before Ma passed away I had lots of time to tell her I loved her and was very thankful for all she had done for me. Most of all she knew I was Christian and she would see me again. Today I am only trusting in the hope that Kathy is in heaven, but I am not 100% sure if she truly accepted Christ. Let your loved ones know if you did put Christ in your Life, those are the best words your loved ones can hear. If they have never accepted Christ, you will show them were you will be going and how you want them to join you. Plant that seed again.

5. Strength for Encouraging Words after Addiction
I have brother, whom i love, but sadly is addicted to drugs. He has hurt so many of us. Been in and out jail. What words can you offer during this. This is the time words are not needed, it just being there. If you have a loved one who is suffering from addiction, just being there and not saying anything is the best. My brother was in jail, and my Aunt showed up to see him, and that was the best, Because she cared enough just to see him. Sometimes words need to be put into action to help others. Jesus showed action by going to the cross for you and I, that is the strongest show of love.

6.Words for the most Tragic event, The Loss of a baby or child.
 These part of the blog will be my easiest but hardest. What words to you day when a parent has just lost a child. A child is from the moment of conception. So if a child passes before their parents, they say is the hardest trial ever to endure. I have been there I have had three miscarriages and loss five infants at once, Quintuplets, they lived 2 hour before going home to be with Jesus. The best words you can tell a parents is, "I will never forgot your children, I will always remember them" Even if I lost my child in utero they were here. Don't be afraid to reminded me, hey you are a mom. when mother day or father day comes around., Call the parents up or talk them and say, I wanted to wish you a happy fathers and mothers day, I was thinking of your precious child. Those are the most awesome words. Please don't let our children be forgotten.  Don't be afraid to mention to us our children's names, when its their birthday or the day the enter their sainthood in heaven, call and just say I remember it was day for them and I was thinking of them and you all. Might sound crazy,but it  is not to us. All parents want to hear their children names even  our babies who are in heaven. This is also a time to say rely on the words and promises of God.

7 Words when someone is angry at God
I will be first to admit I have never gotten made at God, but i do know people who have. I promise GOD years ago, no matter what happen I will Praise Him. I been through a lot, abuses, loss parents, loss of children. I will say right here and now I Love my Savior and I Praise Him!!!!  Sadly so many get mad at him. When their prayer for a loved doesn't get answered, or a prayer for help in situations. When sin came into the world, sickness and heartache came into the world. GOD didn't want that, but it happened because he provided free will to choose.  Adam and Eve, chose to disobey. So God had a plan to rescues us because of this, That was sending his one and only son to die for you and I to have everlasting . So yes trials will come in our life, it is how we handle it. Like I said for each storm that comes in,  and you get through, makes you stronger. God provides that strength. So if you don't like the words, it is God's will, I am sorry but in life he has special plan for us all. The ones who accepted his will, and praise him will be blessed. I prayed for God's will to be done while I was pregnant with Quints, We made it farther then my first three pregnancies. I thought this was it, I went into premature labor, and my babies were so small they lived two hours. See I could not be mad that they were gone, because God will was done and that what I asked. So I Praise Him!!  I see sometime how it easy for people to thank God when things go their way, but when it doesn't they get mad. Well the perfect words here are, God Loves you, he a special plan,, Step back look at the storm from a third person, and you will see God working in a mighty way. Sometimes those unanswered prayers is what we need the most. Also to the ones who don't like the words "God does not give me more then what I can handle." Well I want to tell you, those are not in the bible. What is in the bible, is
1 Corinthians 10:13
¹³ No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.

What GOD is saying here is,  I will will carry it, if you let me and trust me. I will bear for you, he is what will make you stand each trial when it comes. You are not alone, God is there. So I hope this helps you realize, God loves and he will carry you.

Remember when we are weak he is strong, He will carry that load!!!

I would recommend a song for you, by Leona Lewis, Footprints in the Sand.

Jesus Loves you,
Felicia Kruse